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Around 30,000 women in Switzerland have
converted to Islam, according to a recent report
by an organisation for Muslim women.
In an interview with swissinfo, Monica Nur
Sammour-Wüst, one of those to have made the
switch, speaks about her beliefs and her life as
a Muslim in Switzerland.

Monica Nur Sammour-Wüst converted to Islam in
1992 (SF DRS)
Although raised as a Protestant, 35-year-old Nur
Sammour-Wüst feels she has always been a Muslim.
She converted to Islam over a decade ago and
looks back to an event in Sunday school as a
harbinger of the change that was to come.
“The teacher told us that God sees and hears
everything, but that he sent his son Jesus as an
intermediary to the world,” she recalls.
“I went home and told my mother that if God sees
and hears everything, I don’t need a mediator.”
“Now, as a Muslim, if I pray for help, I pray
directly,” says Nur Sammour-Wüst. “Direct
communication with God is a basic tenet of
Islam.”
Fear of death
In 1991, at the age of 22, she met and married
her first husband, a Lebanese.
“During that time I was always asking myself
questions, especially about death. I didn’t find
the answers I sought in Christianity – there,
death is a taboo subject.”
Her husband, on the other hand, who had lived
through war, did not understand the Western fear
of death – although, like her, he was only 22.
“For him, everything was clear, because in Islam
death is clearly defined,” she says.
“I started to learn more about Islam, and at one
point suddenly I knew. I already believed in
God, in the prophets, in the angels, in
predestination, in resurrection. I was already
Muslim, I just had never realised it. In 1992 I
officially converted.”
After her first husband died in a car accident,
Nur Sammour-Wüst remarried – again to a
Lebanese. But after six years they divorced.
Muslim family
Now a single mother, she is raising her son and
two daughters as Muslims.
“I am responsible for them – also religiously –
until they are 18 years old,” she says. “At home
we live and practise Islam, and the children
accept it. I think it’s normal for them.”
And should one of her children no longer want
anything to do with Islam?
“My most fervent wish to God is that this does
not happen. It would be awful for me, because to
me Islam is a way of life. It is not like a
shirt that you simply change.”
Still, she feels religion and belief cannot be
forced on anyone. “If, in the worst case, a
child no longer wants anything to do with Islam,
then upon reaching adulthood he or she must take
responsibility for that decision.”
No exception
A common preconception is that Muslim women sit
at home and are not allowed to go out in public.
Nur Sammour-Wüst, who leads an active life,
denies she is an exception because she is Swiss.
“In the time of the prophet Mohammed, 1,400
years ago, women were politically and
intellectually active. The notion of house-bound
women tied to the stove is patriarchal, not
religious.”
According to Nur Sammour-Wüst, Muslim women in
Switzerland often complain that they face more
problems than their Swiss counterparts who have
converted to Islam.
She puts much of this down to a failure to learn
the language.
“They absolutely have to learn German,” she
says. “The prophet Mohammed also said that when
you live somewhere, learn the language that the
people speak so you can communicate.”
“In my view, if Muslim women live in
Switzerland, they should be able to speak the
language. If they learn German, constructive
discussions can take place.”
swissinfo, Jean-Michel Berthoud
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